I can finally say with almost complete confidence that we are getting married.

Last week, my fiance (I'll call him Chad - since that's his name) sent in the checks to reserve our date. So come July, at the very least he's getting married to someone (or having one heckuva "I'm-still-single" party).

We've got an appointment to talk food with the caterer and have even tackled the dreaded cake tasting. And yes, it was as horrible as you can imagine - five slices of cake so divine it would soften the grumpiest of demeanors.

Next up we start interviewing photographers and DJs. I've already begun creating a list of songs I absolutely do NOT want to hear (I'm talking about you "Chicken Dance") as well as my must haves.

But we have yet to settle on what "our song" will be. I know that whatever song we share our first dance as husband and wife to will be etched into my memory forever so I want it to be a good one. Problem is, there are a million songs [1] out there perfect for such an occassion. How do we choose the ideal one?

TELL US: What song did you have your first dance to? What do you think is a great first dance song?